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What to Know Before Your Service Member Leaves for Boot Camp

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This list can help you – whether you are a parent, sibling, friend, fiancé or extended family member – get ready before your service member ships off to basic training, or boot camp.

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  1. Help with homework one last time. Your service member may want to become familiar with military ranks, code of conduct and some military jargon before boot camp. As part of their network of support, it will be helpful for you to know this information as well. Studying together may be a good opportunity to spend time with each other before they depart.
  2. Communication will be limited. Once your service member arrives at basic training, they may not be able to communicate with you as often as you would like. Make a communication plan beforehand so you can make the most of the time they do have to communicate, but be prepared for the plan to change based on the boot camp’s schedule.
  3. They can’t tell you everything. When your service member heads off to boot camp, they are entering a world that you may not be familiar with. It’s natural to want to learn what they’re doing so you can stay connected. However, there are some aspects of military service that can only be shared with those who have “a need to know.” This is for your service member’s safety and the success of their mission. So be prepared to not be told everything, and appreciate what they are able to share.
  4. There are rules for “in uniform” behavior. Your service member will be expected to carry themselves in a specific way when in uniform. Military uniform etiquette varies by service branch and often restricts public displays of affection, how and when they eat, when they wear their hat, even whether or not they can carry an umbrella. Members also need to know the difference between uniforms and when to wear them. Ask your service member about these rules.
  5. There are lots of resources available. In addition to military benefits, such as health care and education help, the Defense Department and each branch of service has many resources to ease transition to military life, including help with physical conditioning, housing, recreation and finances.
  6. Get ready for some tough conversations. You know that military life is not without its risks. Service members are required to have their affairs in order, including making a will and choosing life insurance designees. By having this conversation in an open and honest way, you can help set your service member’s mind at ease and help them stay focused on their mission.
  7. Tell them you are proud. Before they go, tell your service member you love them and that you’re proud of them. By joining the military, they are committing to selflessly serve and defend our country. They will experience many challenges in the months ahead, so your support is important.
  8. Boot camp isn’t the time to “get fit.” Your service member will be expected to be in good physical shape when they arrive. Help and encourage them in their fitness and nutrition goals in the months and weeks leading up to boot camp. If your service member is well beyond basic training, consider sharing the following information with somebody whose loved one has recently enlisted:

Your new recruit likely has a fitness plan from the recruiter. Set aside time to talk about a workout schedule as well as the overall goals. You can look up your service branch’s recruit training and requirements.

Ask how you can help, especially if the fitness plan will require big changes in your loved one’s life. Your support can be as simple as helping your new recruit stay accountable to goals, such as waking up in time to make it to the gym, or as involved as joining in as a workout buddy.

An injury can derail your recruit’s efforts to get in shape. But most injuries can be prevented with a few precautions. Your loved one may be balancing a lot right now as they prepare for basic training. A few examples of things to focus on include:

  • Use proper footwear. Shoes should fit well and be comfortable. Replace running shoes when they become worn.
  • Wear appropriate workout clothing. Choose light, breathable material. Dress in layers during cold weather. Make sure clothing has reflective material for exercising when visibility is low.
  • Take time to warm up and cool down during workout sessions.
  • Stay hydrated. It’s a good idea to drink two glasses of water 30 minutes to an hour before each workout.
  • Don’t overdo it. Many injuries are caused by overusing muscles through too many sets and repetitions.
  • Avoid outdoor exercise when it’s extremely hot or cold. Heat exhaustion and hypothermia are dangerous conditions that may require hospitalization.

It takes more than regular workouts to build strength and stamina. Good nutrition and adequate rest are essential as well. Eating right means:

  • Avoiding fast food and other processed foods
  • Eating plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables
  • Eliminating sugary beverages
  • Choosing lean proteins
  • Eating whole grains
  • Drinking eight to 10 glasses of water per day

Your recruit may already follow a healthy diet. But if not, and your recruit is still living at home, work together to plan out a shopping list that meets their healthy eating goals. Look for nutritious recipes to try. You can find recipes on the MyPlate website from the U.S. Department of Agriculture. Commit to healthy eating as a family. The rewards will be more energy and overall well-being for everyone.

Sleep is central to overall health. It helps the body fight off infection and improves learning. Most adults need between seven to nine hours of sleep each night. If your recruit doesn’t have good sleep habits, now is the time to change that. A good night’s rest will power your recruit through those days of basic training. Here are a few tips to pass along:

  • Maintain a regular sleep schedule. That means going to bed at the same time each night and waking up at the same time each day. Avoid sleeping in.
  • Finish workouts at least two to three hours before bedtime to be relaxed enough to fall asleep.
  • Avoid alcohol and caffeine. Both can interfere with a deep, restful sleep.
  • Sleep in a cool room.
  • Avoid using a phone or watching TV in bed.

Before you know it, basic training will be over and your recruit’s military career will have begun. As a service member, your loved one will have access to Defense Department resources for overall well-being. These include:

  • Health and wellness coaching. Service members and their immediate family have access to free health and wellness coaching to help them eat better, get fit, tackle stress and manage transitions.
  • Counseling. Trained counselors experienced in military life offer free, confidential sessions. A counselor can help with relationship issues, stress or anger management, parenting challenges and more.
  • Wellness apps. These digital tools were created by DOD and its partners to help service members and their families stay strong in body and mind.

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